Self-Sabotage

Low self-worth = low net-worth. This ๐Ÿ‘† is exactly what Iโ€™ll be teaching in ProjectME the Money Program. Iโ€™ve designed it to help you uncover where you are sabotaging yourself and your goals, and how to develop a different way of operating. โ€ข Regardless if you are wealthy or poor, we can sabotage our success at any level. It may look different when you are worth millions versus living paycheck to paycheck, but the principals and steps to reclaim your worth are exactly the same.

Successful Sales People Don’t Use Force, They Use Finesse

We are all selling (marketing) something. Whether it be ourselves as a personal brand, a service, products, or a pitching a concept to potential investors. $ I am often asked whatโ€™s my โ€œsales secretโ€? Well, I have no secret angle or tactic…I focus on the customer/investors needs, see if what Iโ€™m marketing can help with that need, if so, present the how and why with clarity, transparency, and finesse. $ If what Iโ€™m marketing wouldnโ€™t help them in any way, then they arenโ€™t my customer for this product/service. I donโ€™t try to force a square peg into a round hold. Total waste of everyoneโ€™s time.

We are what we Repeatedly Do!

The only way to break an unhealthy habit is to replace it with a new and healthy habit. If it doesnโ€™t scratch that same itch, it will be tough. โ€ข For example, I use to be in a habit of โ€œneedingโ€ dessert every night. I wanted to break my self of this, so I tried eating fruit instead. NOPE! Didnโ€™t scratch that itch. So I tried some yummy hot decaf caramel tea and one piece of dark chocolate. BINGO! My pleasure sensors liked it enough to break my habit of night ice cream.

You’re Allowed to have Shitty Days

My lord is this a MUST READ from @metalmarvels. In todayโ€™s world of social media, it appears that most peopleโ€™s lives, businesses, relationships, etc. are ๐Ÿ’ฏ perfect. Truth is, the more โ€œperfectโ€ it looks, the more itโ€™s a front. Nothing is perfect. No one is perfect. No ones life is perfect. Itโ€™s absofuckinlutely ok to have bad days. Better yet, itโ€™s ok to broadcast bad days because itโ€™s real. For me, yesterday someone shared a video in our group of this 98 year old man who said โ€œholy shit!โ€ and more expletives when he found out how old he was. It reminded me so much of my grandma who passed this past April. Itโ€™s made me miss her so much more than normal. Iโ€™ve been crying randomly since I saw it. But guess what? Itโ€™s all ok. Itโ€™s a part of life. We are allowed to be a mess sometimes. We are allowed to not be ok. Iโ€™ll say it again. WE ARE ALLOWED TO NOT BE OK. ๐Ÿ–ค

Extraordinary Things Don’t Come From Comfort Zones

Iโ€™m uncomfortable AF right now. Why? Because Iโ€™m building a new business (ProjectME), my dream business, my soul calling. Yes I know how to build and run multi-million dollar businesses, but itโ€™s out of my โ€œcomfort zoneโ€ to build my ultimate dream business. $ I know with every cell in my body that Iโ€™m doing the right thing, but that doesnโ€™t make me any less uncomfortable. So guess what, I do it anyway. So get uncomfortable…itโ€™s a big part of being successful. . . .

You Have Residual Bills… Why Not Have Residual Income?

Let that sink in. We all pay reoccurring bills each month, sometimes weekly. So that expected money going out of your bank account on the reg. Sooooo….it is just as possible to have regular expected money going INTO your bank account. Yes is it easier to create bills than income, but generating passive income doesnโ€™t have to be hard or only for Ivy League finance guys. Everyone can generate passive income. Iโ€™ll be teaching you how in ProjectME the Money Series. Keep following for updates!

Sell the Problem you Solve not the Poduct

Being in sales and marketing for 17 years! Iโ€™ve learned a thing or two; the emotion is with the problem you solve not the product. Letโ€™s use Spanx as an example (shape wear for women and men), if they just focused on selling the Lycra items and their high quality, they may get sales but not multi-million dollar sales. Because they focus on women wanting to look as good as possible in their clothes and feeling confident in them, their sales are huge and their brand remains strong.

Integrity is how you behave when no on is watching.

Do you behave differently in front of people you know versus strangers? I know I use to. I developed this heightened version of my best self when out in public. Full of energy, confidence, fun, and always up for anything. It was bullshit ๐Ÿ’ฉ. Often I couldnโ€™t wait to come home to strip off that false self and just be me. An introvert, a thinker, a dreamer, someone who loves just chillinโ€™ at home. Part of that persona I created is a part of me but I amped it up to what I thought people would want to see and experience, cause I clearly didnโ€™t think I was enough just as I am. When I let go of that false self and embraced by real self, I felt free for the first time in my life. ๐Ÿ’œ, Tiffany

Don’t Be Busy, Be Productive

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I use to wear the โ€œhustleโ€ badge of honor for many years. Only to realize it was bull ๐Ÿ’ฉ and my egos way of trying to find self-worth. So, all of the messages and posts you see that glamorize โ€œgrinding,โ€ โ€œwerking,โ€ โ€œhustlingโ€ donโ€™t show the VERY UGLY flip side of this behavior. That my loves is total burn out, exhaustion, getting sick all the time (was my only excuse to rest in my past life), depression, anxiety, brain fog, weight gain, I could go on and on. I was the lucky winner of having them all. I literally โ€œgrindedโ€ my way into the ground, well almost. It truly almost cost me my life. ๐Ÿ’œ Sooooooo, more simply put โ€œdonโ€™t be busy, be productive.โ€ Exhaustion isnโ€™t sexy on anyone. If the above ๐Ÿ‘†sounds like you now, go check out these two ladiesโ€™ feeds @leanne.oaten @adrenal.fatigue.awareness for Info, tips, and support. . . . . . #mindset #millionairemindset #moneymindset #femaleentrepreneur #womeninbusiness #bossbabes #womensupportingwomen #ladyboss #womeninbiz #femaleempowerment #femalemillionaire #millionairementor #millionairelifestyle #femaleceo #champagnediet #itstime #moneygram #successfulwomen #successquotes #womensupportingwomen #adrenalfatigue #exhausted #depressed #stressedout

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Do What You Love, Love What You Do

 

I use to make my self finish books ๐Ÿ“š i didnโ€™t like, stay in an exercise class that was boring AF, not leave a date where the guy was rude or gross, eat a meal ๐Ÿฅ˜ that wasnโ€™t very good, I could keep going but you get my point. If it doesnโ€™t make you happy or feeling loving to yourself than donโ€™t do it. Donโ€™t finish it, leave, walk out, excuse yourself, change jobs, careers, friends, clothes, etc…. You deserve to feel happy, loved, nurtured, and supported every day. ๐Ÿ’œ, Tiffany.