The most dangerous word you keep using!!!
I still catch my self at least once a week (and that’s on a good week) saying this word out loud or in my thoughts…. but, I had to train my self to even notice it, catch it, and reverse it.
The DANGER word is “when.” I know, not what you thought I was going to say.
It’s the most cunning, sneaky, and manipulative of words that our egos and inner bully’s use to get us to slam on the breaks of going after something new and different.
“When my kids get settled into a groove for the school year I will…”
“When I figure out my niche, then I will start posting regularly.”
“When I start making more money, I can hire a business coach to help me.”
“On Friday when I have more time, I will get focused and…..”
“When Tiffany does her next in person Mastermind I will for sure attend.” (which BTW I have no idea if I will be doing another one ever!)
Any of these sounds familiar???
In the moment, these thoughts sound legit and even reasonable, which is why I say this is one of the sneakiest goal-sabotaging words. It’s a procrastination statement in disguise, which will likely give you temporary relief, as you don’t have to get into action…. but it will cause you long-term anxiety, guilt, frustration, and brokenness.
WHEN… your mind starts thinking thoughts that start with this 4-letter secret sabotager….I want you to ask yourself this question:
What is the price I’m going to pay by putting this off again?
If your ego is as strong and stubborn as mine, it will start arguing like it’s a top trial attorney as to why it’s smarter to wait. This is a GIANT red flag that you have self-sabotage going on.
There is an equally dangerous phrase that is also blocking your abundance and filling you with self-doubt that I’m discussing on this podcast episode, as part of the ongoing popular “Get Unblocked Series.”
Tune in and allow me to have a little chat with that ego of yours….time to talk some sense into that inner bully.
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