Be mindful of how you refer to yourself and how you allow others to describe you. If it’s critical even though it’s comical, the Universe doesn’t know the difference.
I use to call my self a hot mess all the time and it’s one of the behaviors that kept me stuck. So I’m incredibly mindful of how I describe my self and what I allow others to call me. I use to allow people to call a hot mess as well, which multiplied that validation to the Universe.