Strengthen Your Self Confidence

Self-confidence is like a mental muscle: Everyone is born with it, but not everyone flexes it. 💪🏼⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Like most muscles, self-confidence can be strengthened over time with intentional practice, training, and consistency. How you choose to train this muscle is up to you!

I find that dressing well has a huge effect on my self-confidence. I’m not implying that a nice outfit has the power to change your life. BUT I do believe that it has the power to influence how you perceive yourself and as I always say:⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Low self-worth = Low net-worth⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

High self-worth = High net-worth⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Leave some loveeee ❤️❤️❤️ below if you agree!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Working on Planes

I do some of my best work on airplanes. ✈️

Many of my friends think it’s almost impossible to work while flying. For me: I love it, and here’s why:

1. No distractions: The over-priced and unbearably slow wifi makes it almost impossible to get lost scrolling social media or texting your friends!

2. Time Blocking: No need to set an alarm or track the clock. The pilot takes care of all of that. Your only job is to sit back, relax and get in the zone!

3. Time flies: I know it may sound tedious and boring, but I find that working on airplanes is the best way to pass time!

Am I a total weirdo or do you do this too? 😂

You Deserve You Time

One of my biggest passions in life is traveling. I love immersing myself in different cultures, meeting new people and exploring this glorious planet 🌎 of ours!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

This is a huge part of WHY I do what I do.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

We spend so much of our time focusing on making money that when it comes time to spend it, it can be hard to treat ourselves to the things that inspired us to make the money in the first place. Funny how that works isn’t it?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

This is exactly what ProjectME is all about. I’m hear to tell you that the Most Exceptional project in your life, is YOU! And that putting yourself and your needs first isn’t selfish. In fact, it’s actually a necessary act of self-care and empowerment! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

ProjectME is a program to create your Most Exceptional life, by putting the focus back on you. Im here to help you create the wealth, love, career, self-worth, travel, relationships, and life you have always wanted.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

When was the last time you treated yourself to some serious R&R?⠀⠀⠀⠀

Success is a Journey

Success is a journey ✈️. Not an end destination 💰. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Meaning, there is always more success, money, and wealth to be had. You could be the richest person in the world and still not have enough money. 🤑⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Maybe you just want to make your first million. That’s great! But what happens when you reach that goal? Will you be content with just 1 million or will you want 5 or 10 million? It’s a dangerous game that more often then not, leads to misery and self-destruction. 😖

The key to achieving LASTING success is learning to embrace and love the process. Most people who have made lots of money in their lives genuinely LOVE the process of making money.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
What do you do to slow down and embrace the process?

💜, Tiffany⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Stack the Odds in Your Favor

Wouldn’t that be nice!! 😂⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

But, let’s be real… that’s just not how it works!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Social media has totally transformed what it means to be famous. Fame used to be a word reserved for movie stars and musicians. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Now, anyone with a social media account, an iPhone (or android), and a few years of hard work, dedication and consistency can become famous and reap the benefits that come along with it! 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

It seems so simple! Right? Not quite! What we see on social media is only a small part of the story. The reality is that most of the women and men who are considered “Instagram famous” did not skyrocket to fame overnight. The majority of them have been hustling and working for years to grow their influence. Nobody was watching 5 years ago when they were posting photos and videos every day and receiving little to no engagement, but they were, and they stuck with it!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

The odds of going to sleep one night and waking up the next day famous are extremely low! As a business woman, I am all about stacking the odds in my favor. Meaning, there’s no way that I’m going to leave my reputation up to chance. Instead, I’m going to work my ass off to control the controllable and give myself the best possible chance to succeed.

What Ignites Your Spirit?

As a California girl, I have always had a deep love and appreciation for the water! 🌊

There’s just something about the sand on my feet and the sound of the waves that makes me so so happy! 😊⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Recently, I’ve been working very hard to do things everyday that inspire me. Whether it’s a quick walk on the beach, exploring a new area of town, or just taking time to read a book – I always leave refreshed, inspired and excited to get shit done! 👍🏼⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
What is it for you that makes you feel that way??⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Wherever it is, I challenge you to spend more time doing it!! promise you, it will be one of the best decisions of your life! 💜, Tiffany⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Question of The Day

Question of the day: Do you deserve to be wildly successful? 💰⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

In your heart of hearts to you honestly believe that you deserve money, success and wealth? You don’t have to share your answer with me, but be honest with yourself. 💖⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
The reason I’m asking is because this is the first step to making real money. You might not realize it yet, but self-worth and financial worth are completely intertwined.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you don’t believe in yourself, in your ability to manifest wealth, in your talents that set you apart from the masses, or in your purpose (your individual WHY), then your financial situation will always be less than what you want it to be.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Now I know you’ve probably heard this before. But have you ever really thought about how it applies to you? Maybe you feel like you aren’t the best at what you do, or maybe you feel guilty asking people to buy your service or to invest in your career. These are all self doubts. And they are SO normal!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
The truth is no-one feels confident in themselves 100% of the time. However, successful people tend to feel significantly more confident in their skills and abilities than the average person. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Now, this confidence doesn’t have to be screamed from the rooftops or shoved in people’s faces. Confidence can simply be you, alone, believing in your true purpose and believing that you are worthy of success. 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Start today! Write down an affirmation that offers a positive twist on your negative belief about yourself.

Beautiful Little Moments

I never used to notice moments like this. I was always moving too fact, thinking too much, and constantly doing.

You see if we get so caught up in the daily hustle, we lose sight of all the little beautiful moments the Universe showers us with everyday.

One of the biggest blessings I’ve received by slowing the F down, is being able to witness and appreciate God’s creations, like this beautiful summer sunset over the Santa Monica mountains. #nofilternecessary

When we hustle too hard or for too long, we lose gratitude, not to mention inner peace, and often self-care.

Slow down today and take note of what small miracles you notice. The blooming flowers in your neighborhood, the sounds of kids laughing, how the sun hits your back porch…

Are you willing to slow the F down today?

Train Your Brain

Pssssssst…..I’ve got a secret to tell you. It’s something most successful entrepreneurs don’t like sharing.

Making money is actually pretty damn easy, once you train your brain to look for opportunities. It’s like playing a strategic game like checkers, chess, or even Warcraft.

You look for an opening, wait for the right time to make your move, and you boldly GO FOR IT!

Most people over complicate things in order to sell you stuff or their services. If you’ve ever hired a web designer, a home contractor, or even a plumber, you know what I’m talking about.

You wouldn’t go play a game that didn’t look fun or exciting to you, so don’t go looking to make money in industries or ways that don’t fire you up.

Take some time this weekend and write down the top 3 industries/subject matters that hold your interest. Ie. Fashion/beauty, lifestyle, marketing, interior design, real estate, etc…

Then write down your top 3 skills that you know your good at, and you like performing them. Ie. Crafts, jewelry making, writing, photography, drawing, yoga, teaching, etc…

Now, get creative and brainstorm how your skills can be useful to your desired industries. Photography for realtors, fashion design crafting, teaching interior design for beginners, writing content for busy online marketers, and so on.

Now do you see all of the possible ways you are qualified, and would actually enjoy making money performing???!!!

Courage and Fear

“Courage is fear that has said its prayers.”

We all have fear, it’s a natural human reaction. It is how we manage the fear that determines our success and mindset.

Courage as defined above, is what we must tap into in order to achieve the life we truly desire and deserve.

When fear comes up for me, which has been often as I put ProjectME out into the world, I follow my proven fear releasing technique.

First, I acknowledge the fear. Second, I break out a journal or my notes app in my phone, and free-write what is coming up for me, just word vomit it all out.

Third, I ask my self, “is this true? Is (insert fear) true?” A hint, the answer is 99% of the time a BIG FAT no.

Fourth, I ask my self, “what in fact is the truth here?” (I write all of this out)

Fifth, I take a few deep breaths, and surrender the outcome, my fears, insecurities, and anxiety to the Universe, to the God of my understanding. (This step reminds me that I’m not in charge and in control, there’s a power greater than me at work on my best behalf.)

Optional: sometimes it feels good to burn the fear pages I wrote, or feed them through my shredder. (If I type it out on my phone, I will delete what I wrote, and power it off and on.)