Soak in the Wisdom

 

Here’s one ☝️ thing you can do today to get closer to creating your Most Exceptional life. A life of financial independence, money savviness (is that even a word?😝), as an empowered vibrant woman.

Ready for it? READ. Yup, I want to read. Not just anything, I want you to dedicate time each day to reading on a subject you want to start a business in, or make a career change into; read about someone who you admire, who you would be thrilled to have a similar lifestyle/career to theirs.

Every multi-millionaire I know including me makes time to read 📚things that advance their skill set. If you hate reading or desperately need to multitask then use @audible_com, they have thousands of audiobooks.

If you are already reading 📖 then good for you, I just validated something you already do. Share in comments your fav books.👇

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You were born to be real, not to be perfect!

Somewhere along the way, many of us developed the false belief that we have to be perfect, that we aren’t good enough just as we are. It’s a belief that kept me trapped for most of my life. I kept overachieving, dieting, exercising, doing, to the point of exhaustion, trying to achieve the unachievable, PERFECTION.

Of course I never achieved it and I nearly killed my self trying (that’s not an exaggeration…you will hear more of my insane story once my podcast launches). Now I’ve accepted that I’m a human being, not a human doing, and all I can do is my best. Accepting our humanness is to accept our quirks, our flaws, our physical limitations, our bodies while shining a big beautiful light on all the gifts we have to offer the world.

I’m I “perfect” at doing this acceptance thing every day? HELL NO. But I’m 1000000 times better, happier, calmer than I use to be. Truly that’s all I can ask for is progress, not perfection. 💜, Tiffany

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Stay Weird

Aren’t you tired of seeing the same posts, people selling the same thing, people looking the same? It’s so refreshing when I meet someone virtually or in person that owns their magical, unique, weird, awkward selves, insecurities and all.

BUT it takes vulnerability and bravery to embrace our own weird selves, and put it out to the world. Some people can do it out of the womb, some can never do it, and the rest of us do it on our own time in our own way.

Stay weird, be weird, embrace your weird. It’s what will draw the right people to you, and incredible opportunities into your life. If you do the same shit as others in your field, you won’t stand out and therefor won’t make BIG money. I played it safe for many years, NO MORE! I got bored of my own damn corporate self. Being me flaws and all, good days, bad days, in between days, I come as me and it feels SO DAMN GOOD.

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The Soul Always Knows What to do to Heal Itself.

Being sick 😷 sucks! Being sick as a passionate driven entrepreneur is frustrating, disappointing, and inconvenient AF 🤬.

Do you guys get yet that I’m sick?! 😉

A dear friend of mine reminded me today that I’m human and humans get sick. So I’m here to pass on her wisdom. Whether you have the flu 🤧, are grieving a loss, or are just having an off week….it’s ok, you are human, and this shit happens to humans.

Sometimes we get so caught up in our work, passions, and daily life that our soul has to scream at us to take a break. For me that scream usually comes in the form of me getting sick, which rarely happens anymore 🙏.

So my fellow humans, let’s collectively take a deep breath and give ourselves a break. After all, we are only human.

💜, Tiffany

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Give the World the Best of YOU!

Do you put your ALL into your job and come home exhausted, only able to give your loved ones scraps of yourself? Society glamorizes “giving your all” into parenting, work, and the gym. Well if you give your “ALL” then nothing is left for you.

Bring a great mom doesn’t require you to give so much of yourself that you have nothing left. This would make you an exhausted, bitter, resentful, and unhealthy mom. The same applies to your career. You don’t have to “give your all” in order to be successful. If fact, don’t give your all, otherwise you may be left with a pile of money but sick, alone, burnt out, with nothing left to give. I know as this was my story.

Give your all to yourself and the excess energy, love, joy, money, and inner peace will spill over into every part of your life.

💜, Tiffany

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Your Time has come to Focus on YOU and Attract Your Most Exceptional Life

You got this! You know how I know? Because if I walked through my deep fears (often times crawled), then I know you can too. We all have wounds, yes some people have more than others. I was part of the “more” group.

I’ve personally been witness to hundreds of women from the “more” group, walk through their fears and make it out alive, and thrive, for the first time in their lives. It took bravery, guts, a God of their understanding (Universe, Buddha, the ocean), and a raw desperation for a better life.

If you are sick and tired of your life being in the same stuck place, then you are ready and willing for change. That’s great! Your time has come to focus on YOU and attract your Most Exceptional life.

💜, Tiffany .

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If You Can’t Control your Emotions, You Can’t Control Your Money

I can already hear some of you saying, “that’s not true, look at all of the erratic behavior of wealthy celebrities and socialites.” YES, exactly. They are overspending, have people on their teams stealing from them or abusing their expense accounts, and many of these people owe millions in back taxes!!!

My point is just because someone is rich doesn’t mean they will remain that way for years to come. Erratic, irrational, crazy, toxic emotional behavior will affect your earnings whether you are middle class or uber rich. It’s all relative. • Approx 4 years ago, I was an emotional mess but I wasn’t aware of it. I was a full blown workaholic with exercise bulimia, and dating all the wrong guys. I also was making more $$$ than ever before. Guess what happened, I lost almost 400k in hard cash in less than a year! I had someone steal from me, I leant money to someone who never paid me back, had a business deal with no signed contract (my fault), and I was paying other people’s bills out of some made up obligation. On the street things looks damn good but inside my brain and my bank account was pure chaos.

So the master of money Warren Buffet is damn right. When our emotional life is in chaos so is our financial life.

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The Best and Worst Uses of Imagination

Anytime you’re stuck in worry, anxiety, and fear, pause and help redirect your energy by engaging in something creative. Some things that work for me: coloring, working on my vision board, hand embroidery (I’m not great at it but love doing it), create a goals list with fun colored pens and stickers (I’m obsessed with stickers-yes I’m really 10).

Typically after about 20 minutes my anxiety brain has turned off. I would rather put my mental energy towards something creative and productive than stress about 💩 I can’t control.

What do you guys do to de-stress?

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Make it Happen

Whatever it is you want, you can dream about it, talk about it, stress about it, even pray about it, but one thing is for sure…none of it will manifest unless you show the Universe that you’re serious by taking consistent action. . If you chose to keep your dreams stuck in your mind, then the Universe will see that you aren’t that serious about wanting what it is you “say” you want. MAKE IT HAPPEN! Even with daily baby steps. Get daily encouragement from me and other cool 😎 female entrepreneurs like @angielee.tv @emilyvavra @iammelwells @badassbusinessbabe to keep you motivated, and in faith versus fear. 💜, Tiffany

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We Don’t Have to do it all Alone!

I use to think if you were strong and independent, that meant you were suppose to do everything on your own like it was no big deal. WOW WAS I WRONG! True strength is knowing when you need help and with what, AND ASKING FOR WHAT YOU NEED. As I’m starting my second business (ProjectME), I am hiring people who to help me bring my vision to life. I’m attracting the perfect people with great talent to launch this brand to the moon. Having a team makes this process a hell of a lot easier and much more fun.

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